Unbanned Jovanca_jovanca banned by managment desicion

[lukjano]

• What is your in-game name?
  Jovanca_jovanca
   
• Which staff member banned you?
  managment desicion
   
• When did you get banned?
  01/21/2021
   
• What is the ban reason?
  Toxicity
   
• Personal comment

  I have already posted several unban requests which were all denied by Eduardo Santos because, as he said, I'm a chronic rule breaker, and today I will argue that. When I started playing this server, and for the most part of playing it, I was lead to believe that trash talking was allowed on this server, but there are some things out of boundaries like insulting people's families, using personal life informations and so on. My trash talking mostly came down to saying "fuck a (gang/group/player name)". I'm not a snow flake so I rarely, if ever, reported anyone for insulting me, even though people literally knowingly insulted my dead parent on this community, shared my pictures over discord, tried making fun of me about it in game or on discord (those happened even after I got banned, by the people who still play, and some of them are banned for unrelated reasons). 
   

  The reason I got banned involves the worst of insults I used to try to piss off an admin who had insulted my mother many times prior to that. I do understand this person had thought I was taking it as a joke when he did that, but I assure you, I see no joke in insulting anyone's family member nor do I ever do that. That together with the fact that I felt i was being wrongfully treated several times in a row by that and one other part of the admin team, got me so triggered that i said some disgusting things for which i 100% deserve to be banned and for a while too. I would say the same if it was the other way around, and I do admit that.
  
  Having that said, I sincerely apologise for my behaviour and the things I said to @moncho. Even though I was angry, I apologised to him for insulting his family, even while we were still throwing insults at one another, because that's really not how I was raised or how I am. If i had an issue with him as an admin or a player or with something he said, I should have reported it, instead of doing what I did, which was losing control and acting like an infant.
   

  Now, the reason I am posting this unban appeal, even after being denied, is simply because I believe everyone deserves another chance. Eduardo denied my previous unban requests on account of me being a constant rule breaker, but that is not true. I wasn't exactly a model player at all times, but I spent so much time helping new players on the server, teaching people how to properly role play. I brought tens of people to the server, I created groups with purpose to teach people how to properly play on a role play server. Two of the groups I was leader or part of leadership became official. The punishments listed by Eduardo are arguable. The claim that I've been banned for threatening community is not exactly right, I was banned on my request by Noah Peterson or Leonardo Carter, and the ban was lifted over a simple discord message "i want to play again". Some admins interpret rules in their own way, I've seen staff members say "fuck a balla" but I've also been punished for saying stuff like that.
  
  To summarize, I am aware that i fucked up and deserved to get banned, but I am not a person who (as per Eduardo Santos) is unable to change. I (and i believe other people as well) had fun with "fuck a balla" and other light trash talk, but if that's the issue I will completely cut myself away from any kind of toxic behaviour. My intentions weren't bad, believe it or not. I still have a lot of friends who play on Valrise, and I'm pretty sure more would come back as well shall I be unbanned. 

 

Edited August 7, 2021 by INFERNO

[Chip]

Hello, Jovanca_jovanca!

 

Thank you for submitting an unban request, our staff members will review it shortly. Until then, follow some of these instructions:

1. Do not message staff members to review your unban request, it will result in extension of its reviewal time.
2. Be honest and do not attempt to lie to us. We will deny your request upon discovering lies.
3. Getting banned multiple times is a serious concern and should not happen at all. With every ban your chances of unban are reduced.

 

In the meantime, do not attempt to ban evade. That will directly lead to denial of your request.

[INFERNO]

Even we forgive you as management, the player who you harmed still have not forgiven you. We spoke with him and hence we decided to not unban as long as everyone involved forgives you.

[INFERNO]

Hello, as we have discussed, Management has decided to unban you and give you another chance. The base terms are to be followed.

No more OOC toxicity, joking and fun is fine but don't offend people with comments or provoke them by any sort.
Have more self control and if anyone provokes you just reach out to me or any manager, we will take care of it, try not to get involved directly or provoke them back.

Please keep in mind any sort of toxicity related issues can lead to permanent ban.